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找到一个他的采访,相当长,但读来过瘾,信息量很大。从采访中看来,此人颇有想法,绝对不是个无脑男。其人生态度也颇让我欣赏。这里摘录些此采访中我觉得有意思的段落吧:
1. 他妈是妓女:I was born in Thailand — I'm 100% Thai. I was born there, and my mom, who was in the adult business, she was an escort, a hooker, whatever you call it...
2. 用性赚钱始于换偶club:My break into the industry, into the sex-for-money industry anyway, that started when I began to go to swing clubs — swingers parties.
3. 英国换偶club里的人一般长得太挫:I didn't really go to bang other chicks, I was going just to bang my chick in front of other people. I mean, initially, we did look for other hot couples. But sadly, in the U.K., the people in the swingers scene, they're the opposite of hot. Not a good crowd to pick suitable play buddies from!
4. 很多男人付钱让其干他们老婆以满足其cuckolding fetish (x,我发现这种男人还真不少,我身边就几个,不多说了):The dude is sitting in the room while his wife is getting banged, and that's what turns them on. And a lot of these cuckold couples started asking me, "Can we just book you to do this?"
5.终于有一天……干了某porn导演的porn star老婆,于是“事业开始起飞”(当然这之后出现曲折,具体见原文):When I turned up at this meeting, the guy had lights set up all over, and I was thinking, "This dude is really taking it seriously." And his wife was so hot — I was like, "Wow, this is great!" I did it, and right after, they said, "Oh...we feel we should tell you, I'm actually a porn director, and my wife here has a porn site, and that was a really hot scene; we would love if you'd come back and do that again. We'll pay you extra, if we can put it on the site." And I was like "Yeah, sure, man...wow, I just fucked a porn star!" Actually, that couple has progressed now to becoming one of the biggest porn producers in the U.K.
6. 在欧洲他只是被视作一个男人,但在美国人们会惊呼“哇靠,亚洲男哦” (这印证了我之前的印象,也解释了为何在欧洲泡西女要容易不少,盖在那里你只会被视作another guy,甚至还带点神秘感,那里的西女最多有些类似“亚洲男一般长得不如欧洲男”的印象;而在美国,一旦得知你是亚洲男,甚至都还没见到你,“鸡鸡小”、“nerd"、“与其date没面子”之类的标签就先给你贴上了---当然,这些都不是绝对的,只是比较而言):I'd always been just another dude in Europe, "Oh, he's reliable, put the lights on him and he's hard," that sort of thing. But here, everywhere I went, it was "Wow, he's Asian!" Producers, directors, all the top performers — they all wanted to work with me, even though they didn't have a clue who I was, because I was this strange and marvelous thing, a male porn actor who was Asian.
及后面的:“you have the whole vibe here with people's misconceptions about Asian guys and sex. "An Asian porn star! Is he a mutant?" There are so many closed-minded people in America. Maybe that's a massive generalization, but it's largely true. And even the people who don't have issues, they listen to what everyone says, and think, "Hey, that must be true." And then the popular culture, the media, they hype up the same stereotypes.”
及:“even in Europe, I was the only Asian guy doing porn. There was no other Asian guy there, period. But it wasn't a big deal there; no one ever said, "Oh my God, an Asian!””
7. 东欧很多av女从事这个是出于无奈,所以也不enjoy这事业,而美国不一样:if a girl is in porn in the U.S. and she doesn't want to be, she can go work somewhere else. She can flip burgers in a Wendy's if she has to. Whereas in Eastern Europe, there are girls there who really don't have any other options. Their families are hungry. Mom and dad are sick. Many girls over there, I found, don't enjoy what they're doing, but are doing what they have to.
8. 思考人生在世的意义:When you're in the army, it's like doing time in jail. You have a lot of time to think about yourself and who you are. If you're on an outpost, observing empty space in case the baddies arrive, you end up thinking "What the hell am I doing with my life?" You end up focusing on what direction you're going, what you're here on Earth for.
When I ask people what they're here for, a lot of them just look surprised. "What do you mean?" They don't have an answer. "I want a car and wife and a house," they say. I tell them, "That's what you wanna get, it's not what you're here for."
9. 健身狂(所以有人若想寻找泡西女的“秘诀”,我的建议是:先健身三个月再说。健身的目的不仅仅在于获得肌肉;更重要的是,很多亚洲男那股猥琐的气质、缺乏自信的肢体语言等“缺陷”通过健身常会获得改观。当然严格地说,这不是“必要条件”。这里就不多说了):when I'm not working, I'm working out. I train 40 hours a week — not much different from when I was boxing.
10. 碰到自己没兴趣的女人又必须“硬起来”怎么办:I have what I call my little "onion" system. Think of an onion, and how it's made up of layers; if you're not attracted to a certain aspect of the girl, then you've got to peel that layer off, lock it out and focus on the next layer, until you find something you're attracted to.
And that doesn't just apply to porn. For me, it's kind of an outlook on life. Any situation you experience, any encounter, whether it's positive or negative, you can always take something good out of it.
11. “黑白配”才是跨种族,黄人不算 (呵呵,我早就发现所谓interracial porn一般指的就是黑男白女):
The porn world tends to see interracial as solely meaning black and white. I'll be on set talking with girls about other actors they've worked with, and a lot of my buddies are black, and they'll go, "Oh, I don't do interracial."
And I blink, and the director calls, and I'm like, "Uh, okay, so should we get into this scene? You realize this is interracial right now, right?"
"No, it's not."
"Well, yes, it is."
"No, it's not!"
"Look — are you going to suck my dick or not?"
"Yes, okay, I'll get right to it."
People know that Asian and white is interracial, but in porn, the girls don't see it the same way.
12. 对porn产业的看法:People who get naked and have intimate sex on camera in front of a crowd of people are generally very open minded. They're very honest. They're probably going to tell you show you an outlook on life that's different from the closed-mindedness of those who follow society's mold. There's discrimination, prejudice like anywhere else, but it's out in the open and people deal with it.
At the root, this business is all about encouraging openness. Honestly, if we really followed conservative ideals, then no one would be fucking before marriage, masturbation would be outlawed, and people would have no fucking idea what to do with each other when they did get married.
My own outlook is that my job is just love. If I'm in a loving state in my mind, accepting everything there is, then my job's a piece of cake. Having sex is the most natural thing that our fucking species can do! No one can deny that. It's our instinct.
及后面的:“I feel, well, I'm in porn for a reason. It's more than just to get off, and get other people off. I meet so many people who I feel like, when I share time with them, they can grow, and I can grow. It's about learning how to accept certain things in your life, so you can attain mental and emotional stability.”
13. 关于某些比较变态的porn: ...yes, there's porn that's derogatory, kinks that people who don't understand fetish would perceive in the wrong way. But it's all perception. Civilians don't understand the mental side of fetish. The kinks and thrills and the electricity, the chickenskin you get when you put yourself out of your comfort zone. There's an excitement, a sexual excitement in that. And people who are closed-minded don't see that — they just see someone being abused.
In all cases, with fetish, with any extreme porn, the submissive is always ultimately the one in control at all times. People who are outside that scene don't understand that.
14. 他对为啥AV界的男星一般比女星职业生涯长的解释:from the vantage point of the audience, well, most of the people watching porn are men. They're not as concerned about what the guy looks like — just what he can do for the girl. And put it this way, there really are not many guys in the world who can perform well regularly and reliably, so the ones who do have long, long careers.
15. 正在制作关于他人生的纪录片:Right now I'm producing my own stuff, for a website I'm developing, TheLuckyAsianGuy.com, as well as a reality-documentary type series of the same name that just got picked up by Benelux — it's a European network that gets broadcast to Belgium, Denmark, France, and Holland, and I'm selling the show to the U.K. as well. I have contacts with Playboy TV here in the U.S., and I'm hoping to get it on that as well. The show is about me and my life and adventures behind the scenes in porn. I'm hoping that I can show civilians a real inside look at what this biz is like.
16. Does size matter? 他在采访最后给出了他对这个千年谜题的看法:
Here's the same thing I say every time I'm asked: I've never measured my penis. I've never been arrogant or vain enough to care to measure it against anything other than a girl's vagina.
The whole size issue is ridiculous. You don't fuck someone with your dick, you fuck someone with your whole body, your attitude, your presence. The moment you say, "Oh, my dick is X inches long," you've let society win the battle of thinking it matters. And it just doesn't. I'm not the biggest there is, and I'm not the smallest, but I've never measured my penis against anything than a girl's vagina. If it fits and she's happy, I'm happy.
Seriously, if you're that concerned with whether your penis is big enough, just spit on your hands, put it into a pussy and see the reaction. If it's good, it's big enough. And if it's not, just ask her politely if you can put it somewhere else.
17. 采访中其他几处有点搞笑的段落:a. 问题:Stereotypes, as in, "Asian guys have small penises"?
回答:Yeah. That conversation comes up all the time. Frankly, to me it's not a big deal. If someone says that I'm like, "Did you really think that? Okay. And Asian women's vaginas are on sideways, too, right? "
b. And then, of course, I blog; I designed and built my own site, I'm a geek, you know — I love computers, I love editing video. Hell, I'm Asian, right?